In “Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game,” out today, Birger, a former writer for Fortune and Money magazines, crunched demographic, census and other data to show that it really is historically rough out there for the ladies.After noticing that his single gal pals were always complaining that “guys were ignoring them or were toying with them,” Birger decided to investigate.It's pretty simple: Look for cities that have a lot of other single people!More specifically, look for neighborhoods where single people are concentrated.And men with more education also had stronger preferences for female partners who were “good looking” and slender, whereas this was not a concern for women.Some 95% of men with an advanced degree said it was “essential” that their partner was “good looking” versus 77% of those with a high school education or less, and 84% of those men said it was essential that their partner was slender versus just 12% of those with a high school education or less. A depressing confirmation of the worst gender stereotypes that suggests the dating game has not progressed much in the last 100 years? But it may go back even further than that, back to a time when social status (in a modern sense) was not important, Frederick says. NOTE: If you want to attract one “special” girl and make her your girlfriend we shared 20 steps to getting a girlfriend here.
Slenderbodies are associated with youth as the body’s metabolism slows as one grows older and, as such, could represent fertility for men, Frederick adds, while women pay attention to things that enhance their survival and that of their family.
You don’t have to wear designer labels and flash a rolex to dress well. Like James Bond or Damon Salvatore in the Vampire Diaries, rather than Harold Wolowitz from The Big Bang Theory.
In terms of how you behave around women, your status is determined by your level of confidence. When it comes to attraction, confidence is everything. If you’re a man who goes after what he wants, is a leader of people and has a higher perception of himself over others, women will find you attractive.
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