If you're dating - or thinking about dating - an older man, you may be concerned about keeping his interest.While your concerns are perfectly natural, keeping his interest is not as problematic as you might imagine."I think it's about the maturity," she relays, recommending that parents meet the person their son or daughter is dating to decide if both of them have enough maturity to handle the relationship."If you meet him and decide he is wonderful, she should be allowed to date him," she says.
"When you start stretching decades and you're talking about young girls, under 19 or so, it's probably problematic," said Dr.Additionally, an older man will probably really enjoy talking things over with you.By asking him about important decisions you're thinking of making, he will not only be able to offer insights, but he will also feel recognized and appreciated.(Um, probably don’t do this, you guys.) It wasn’t like I was stupid. But I didn’t have enough experience or wisdom (as opposed to intelligence) to completely understand what I was getting into.I thought I was totally prepared to deal with the daily realities of having a boyfriend who was older than me by a decade-plus, which turned out to be less than correct.